Строить отношения позитивно (2012, Гамбург), занятие 1

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In a time, in a world where we are surrounded by so much, so many technological advances, so much wealth, but still so many problems. And we constantly ask ourselves why. Gischa Martin Mönch was very much affected by his fate in his young years.

Much too young, he lost his mother, his youngest brother, and then also his father. The shock and the grief moved him to give up his professional career. He studied very successfully, with a degree at a university, and he gave it up and went to India, with the question of finding answers to the question of why.

He then studied for 25 years in India, with many different masters, eventually in a Tibetan school. And, now I have lost the color. But he founded a company, together with a business partner, called Indian International, a very successful business partner.

He founded this company strictly according to the ethical principles of Buddhist teaching, which he had already studied in Austria. And then, after 12 years, he wrote a book, which we now often see in public life, on the street and everywhere, in interaction with other people, in relationships. And often it doesn't work out.

Gish Mike Roach believes in a perfect world, and he believes that we can create it together. He believes that a perfect world begins and ends with a perfect partnership. The great understanding of the karma of love.

That's what it means. Thank you very much.

[Speaker 1]
I'd like to say a couple of words. So, at the Diamond Cutter Institute, we have 12 levels of training. And tonight, the book says third level, but it's in their life people want to find out.

I think the first one is financial independence. We would like to have enough money that we don't have to think about money. So, I don't care to be super wealthy.

But I think everyone would like to have enough money they don't have to think about money. So, for example, now we are sitting in this hall. We are breathing oxygen.

Nobody is worried that somebody else appears breathing too much oxygen. We just feel comfortable, we don't think about it. We just breathe.

And I think money should be like that. Our income. It should be transparent.

We don't have to think about it. Just money comes in. And it's enough.

And we feel comfortable. We can take care of our family. I think that's one goal that everybody in the world shares.

In my own experience, if you are very wealthy, but your house is empty. You have a big house. You have a big apartment.

You come home. Nobody is there. You cook by yourself.

Cooking by yourself is very lonely. And eating by yourself is very lonely. And then, you can see some wealthy people.

They come home to an empty, big empty house. And that's a very lonely thing. So, I don't think it helps to have money.

If you don't have relationships. Especially in the apartment. So, I was in China.

I was in China. I think there were like three or four hundred business people. And we were supposed to be talking about how to make more money in the business.

Then one woman raised her hand. Yes. She said, can you use this diamond principle for your husband?

Then some other guy raised his hand. Wait, wait. What?

Can you use it for your wife? Then I said, I guess so. I don't know.

I think you can use it for your partner. Then the whole business conference collapsed. Nobody wants to talk about business.

Everybody wants to talk about their wife or their husband. Then I thought, oh, maybe I should talk about that sometimes. Then there's a third goal that people have.

If you make a lot of money. And if you have a good relationship. But if you don't have energy.

If you feel old. Many people, they spend their energy to become wealthy. After they become wealthy, they lost all their energy.

Then they can't enjoy their money. They can't enjoy their family. They can't enjoy their life.

So many business people came to me. Teach me to find a partner. And then teach me how to stay young.

How can I have energy like a young person? Can you teach me that? Can you use diamond-cutting principles for that?

You can. Just come on. After you have those three things.

I call that oxygen money. Your income is like oxygen. It's transparent.

You don't notice it. Just money coming. I don't have any record of how much money is coming to me.

That's your problem. Then it just comes. And I don't know how much there is.

And then I just spend it all day. I give money to people. Sometimes I call her.

I say, Do you have enough money? Give more. Then I just give it.

So to have that kind of money. To have a beautiful relationship. So I believe I have the most beautiful relationship I have ever seen in my life.

So I have money. And I have, I think, the most beautiful relationship I can imagine. I didn't meet anybody whose relationship I thought was more beautiful.

And of course you want anything. You want to be able to do many things. Be excited about your life.

It's nice to have energy. Those three things are nice. After you get that.

After you have that. And you know how to get that. Then you want to share it with other people.

It's fun. Last night I was in Zurich. I was sitting with investment bankers.

Telling them how to become more wealthy. For me it's fun. We are having dinner together.

Supposed to be like 50 bankers. Then after two days one more people come. We are in a restaurant.

Then it got one more crowd. At the end it was 130 people. Asking questions.

I think that's fun for me. To help other people. To go around the world.

To help the world. I think everybody wants that. We want money.

We want to be young. But deeper. We want to help the whole world.

Then we like... Spiderman. Iron Man.

Transformers. Wonder Woman. You are all interested.

Why are we so interested? If you make a superhero. It will make 100 million dollars.

You just have to put another name in front of that.

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Woman.

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Ex-woman.

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Anything. It doesn't matter.

[Speaker 1]
All of us want to be like a superhero. We want to help the world. I think these are the four goals of all people.

People want money. Not to think about money. Then we want good partnership.

Nice family. We want to be young. We want to help the whole world.

We want a whole meditation. So our institute. The purpose is to give people those four things.

Help people get those four things. And then we just go around the world. And more and more people invite us.

And we go. So we have 12 levels of training. In those 12 levels.

People learn to reach those four goals. So in the world we have 156 cities. That we have to go to.

Actually Hamburg is ahead of all of them. I'm not just saying that. It's because of those three very persistent things.

They insist we come here. They do a trick. They give us a very good date.

And we say, what's the date for the next visit? We say something. Next day.

What's the date? What's the date? It's a very short date.

Today we have the other date. So anyway. This is the first time in the whole world.

150 cities. That we will do with Level 4. Level 1.

Is how to make oxygen money. How to have enough money. So you don't have to sit in the hall.

Level 2. What should I do with my life? Some people don't know what they want to do.

They went to university. They graduate. They join a company.

They live for 10 years, 20 years. During that time they have a family. Then they reach 40 years old, 50 years old.

Then they start to think. I'm not doing what I want to do. I have some hidden talent.

There is something I want to do. Maybe jazz. But something in me.

I have a good job. I love my family. But I didn't find the thing which I love to do.

That's Level 2. It's finished. Level 3.

By the way, if you didn't do these three levels. You can ask one of those ladies. Excuse me, one of those ladies.

Can you stand up please? Ulla? Silvia?

Beate? Those three, they are teaching. First three levels.

So, if you missed one, you can ask them. They do it every couple of weeks. Just ask them.

Then the third level. Is how to meditate. How to concentrate the mind.

It's very beautiful. It's 2000 years old. Very beautiful drawing, painting.

And then we do five days. Two days talk, three days retreat. Just about meditation.

How to learn meditation. For what? How to use meditation for your business.

Use meditation for your career. Use meditation for your family. A person who has a peaceful mind.

Very clear mind. They have a better family. And they have a better career.

So that was level three. Then it comes from Tibet. But I don't care what is your religion.

Doesn't matter to me. Few months ago we talked in Indonesia. Everybody is a Muslim.

They really like these lots. Then we go to China. We talk communist party.

I'm not supposed to wear this there. I have to wear Thai. It doesn't matter, they enjoy it.

And they are successful. And they make more successful people there. So like that.

In Israel we have many many groups. 21 groups. 35 groups.

So it doesn't matter to me what is your background. I don't care. Just be successful.

Be happy. So level four and level five. These are about relationships.

How to have a good relationship. So we will start level four now. Two nights.

Different talks. First half tomorrow. Second half tomorrow night.

We will start with the beginning. How to have a relationship. How to have a nice laugh.

So what's the difference between level four and level five? Level four is how to find a relationship. How to start a relationship.

How to find a partner. Or how to find a friend. How to find relationships in a relationship.

And a little bit in level four we do partner improvement. So some people say, I already have a partner. I have a partner and I have a husband for 20 years.

Every year he gets more boring. Then we can teach you how to improve it. Make him more excited about you.

Like that, there's a list of things about your husband or your wife. We will start that tomorrow. Then level five.

See, level four is how to find that. How to adjust that. Then level five.

Is how to keep them. Sometimes you find a good one. And you can't keep them.

That's level five. And then, sometimes you find them and you keep them, but then you're not happy. You meet people you start to tolerate.

Like that. So it's possible you keep them, but you're not happy. So that's level five.

How to keep them and be happy. More happy every year. Every year you are together.

You are more happy than before. So my main relationship it's now 42 years since we met each other. And every year it's more beautiful.

Feel more like a teenager every year. I can show you how to make money. But this is also something valuable.

To have money is good. But to have a beautiful relationship with a person you've been seeing your whole life it gets more beautiful every year. That's the key.

That's also precious. So I would like you to have more. So if you want more money you have to talk to the three ladies.

Because now I don't repeat. There's no time. It's twelve levels and a hundred and fifty-six things.

So we are going out on level four. And we will talk about relationships. If you need money you didn't give oxygen money yet, you talk to them.

If people ask me I'd like to start with a meditation. This is a good meditation you can learn. It will teach you to focus your mind.

And you can use it for your job. You can use it in your family. It will give you great peace.

And great focus. Whatever your beliefs are doesn't matter. Your mind will be sharp and peaceful.

To teach you that. So we will start with that. If your mind is peaceful it's sharp.

Then I teach you how to find a partner. You will understand faster. It's important to put your mind in a good place first.

So I'd like you to guess. I brought about ten teachers with me from our institute. And I'd like to introduce Kevin Warren.

In Russia. For the last five years. And I never heard about them.

I also don't know anybody who is publishing a book in Russia. But I was happy. Then we had a nice training.

About a thousand of the workers came. Then on the last day they said the owner wants to meet you. The owner of the company.

Then, I didn't know about him before but he is one of the wealthiest people in the world. He has 8 billion dollars. Then I supposed to go to dinner with him.

And we have to drive for almost two hours. Then we found, go to some big hotel. Then the whole restaurant is empty.

Only three guys are sitting there. They are like this. I came in.

They are watching me. Then I asked the translator, who are those guys? That's his boss, Nortz.

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Then they are looking at me.

[Speaker 1]
Then we sat down. We had a nice dinner. We made time to go back.

Then he said I have to go see my family. He stood up. Then he looked at me.

He said, you know the most important thing in a person's life? They should have a partner. And that partner should be sent by God.

And they should spend their life with this partner. And the goal of life is to become one. Then I was like...

[Speaker 2]
Wow!

[Speaker 1]
There is a debate in Buddhism. There is a practice. There is a very high kind of meditation.

And you are supposed to do that with a partner. Even a monk is supposed to have a partner. Then you are supposed to do this practice with a partner.

Then that practice is secret. In the secret books they talk about this practice. They have some questions about it.

One question. They said a monk they don't care about physical attraction. We are not supposed to drink alcohol.

We are not supposed to eat too much. A real monk, after 12 o'clock you cannot eat. A real monk, after 12 o'clock you cannot eat.

We are not supposed to watch television. Sometimes in our monastery in India a young monk, he sneaks into the town. To see a movie.

On the TV. On the TV. In the Indian restaurant they have a secret room.

All monks go there. They show movies. Not bad movies.

American police movies. You watch the movie. Then quietly you sneak home.

To the monastery. If they catch you they will call you and say come out. In the main temple.

In my monastery almost 2000 monks. So they call you up to the front. Then they give you a big movie poster.

You know some Indian movie posters. Then you have to stand like this. You have to hold the poster.

One arm. If the arm comes down then they will hit you. Then you stand like this.

Then of course we think a monk physically a monk shouldn't be attracted to these things. Like a lot of good food or a big car or a lady. We shouldn't be attracted to them.

Physically. And mentally. We shouldn't have desire for those things.

We're not supposed to meditate about Mercedes Benz. Or some girl. Mentally we're not supposed to think about these things.

Physically we're not supposed to do this. Then we did it very high. In the practice.

You're supposed to have a partner. Then the question comes. When are you supposed to have a partner?

Is it after you don't have desire or before it's ok? Then it's a big debate in the scriptures. Because you're supposed to have your Lama's permission.

There are four secret permissions that you have to have from your teacher. Number three is to have a partner and practice with him. So then they ask a question.

At what stage is it ok to have a partner? When is you don't want a partner? You have no desire in your mind.

[Speaker 2]
Physically.

[Speaker 1]
Also you don't want to do those things. Then at what stage do you reach that? Then there's a big debate in the scriptures.

Then the answer is very beautiful. They said, when you have enough love for humankind then you can have a partner. You see, when you have love for the world then you should have a partner.

It doesn't matter it's not a question of you want those things to just be released. Your body is feeling this thing that if you reach love for the world then you should have a partner. Then that becomes confusing.

How does the teacher know when you are ready for number three? They call it permission number three. Is to have a partner.

Then they said, how does the teacher know that the monk is ready? Then they have a very beautiful answer. When you reach the place that the Buddha reached then they have a long, beautiful story.

So maybe you have heard how the Buddha became enlightened. Buddha was a prince. Buddha had billions of dollars.

Then one day he saw a dead man. Then he asked his friend, what's wrong with him? He's dead.

Then why? Not why, everyone dies. I also have to die.

Yeah, it doesn't matter you're king or you're priest or you have to die. Then he freaked out. He ran away from the palace.

Then he meditated for many years. Then he went to... there's a tower in India called Bodh Gaya.

Nowadays it's called Bodh Gaya. At that time it was called Vajrasana. The seat of the diamond.

Then they say he sat under the special tree like Bodhi tree. He did final meditation. Then he became enlightened.

Then in the secret box in the heaven, they say, no, no, no, it wasn't like that. That was just a play. He's just pretending.

He got enlightened long time before that. Millions of years before that. Then they say, you want to know the real story?

Then you're like, you're like looking at the meditation. What's the real story? Then they say he was meditating.

He was almost becoming Buddha. But he couldn't... something stopped him.

He couldn't reach enlightenment. That was in the evening. Then he got stuck.

Then he's sitting there very frustrated. Then they say many Buddhas came. Many other Buddhas.

How to make him a Buddha? You can't make him a Buddha. He has an obstacle.

In some cases, he needs a partner. He has to practice with a partner. So they brought an agent.

Special agent. Her name is Tilok Dhamma. Tilok Dhamma.

You should know her name. She made the Buddha a Buddha. She made the Buddha a Buddha.

But her name is like... nobody knows her name. Tilak means like Tilok Dhamma.

It means sesame seed. Small drop. Like honey.

Or nectar. Nectar in Greek means die. Nectar in Greek means die.

Tara means to cross. Nectar means one drop of that nectar when you take it then you don't have to die. So her name is Tilak means nectar.

One drop. Dhamma means highest. So her name is highest drop.

Tilak Dhamma. And she said, it was midnight. Then they brought her to him.

Then they said, you have to practice with her. Then he started with her. Then for like four hours they sat together and he feels her energy.

He has a man's energy. She has a woman's energy. The two energies start to mix.

Together. Then what he is lacking she has. What she is lacking he has.

He needs her energy. And she needs his energy. And then the energies start to combine.

They said that when the sun starts to we call daybreak, not dawn. Dawn means the sun, you can see the sun. Daybreak means it starts to get light.

The sun didn't break the night. Because of the so it's like four o'clock five o'clock in the morning their energy is mixing. And that energy has connection to the sun.

So the light starts to come. And they are both feeling bliss from each other. Then they're going because of the bliss they start to go into a very deep meditation.

And that meditation changes the sun. And the sun starts to get brighter and brighter. The sun starts to break the horizon.

They reach a special meditation called clear light. Then both together they reach this deep meditation called clear light. Because of the bliss.

So the bliss causes the deep meditation. Then they start to rise. Then the body starts to change.

His body and her body. Because of the meditation both body change to light. Then the sun is up.

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The sun breaks the night.

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In the first moment of the full sun their bodies change. And they are making light. Like angels.

In the next second thousands hundreds of thousands of bodies split from their body. Like a mirror. Thousands and thousands of bodies.

Then those bodies appear on other worlds. Throughout the sky. In the night sky.

You can see millions of stars. In the second moment their bodies split. And they are together.

On countless planets. And they are helping people. Like angels.

It's a very beautiful story. Then one body came to this world. And pretended to become Buddha.

Under a tree. But that was just a pretending. They finished a long time before that.

So that four hours that they are together that became the third permission. That your teacher must give the monk. It's called in Tibetan.

Then since that time two and a half thousand years ago there has been a custom. When the monk is ready they will have the third permission. What does it mean ready?

It means in my case why I became monk. Because of the death of my mother and my father. So then my mother was a good person.

And then she died. And I was so hurt. I thought, why should a good person die?

My whole mind got confused. Then I went to India. I start to notice one day in India.

I went in 1973. At that time it was worse. I saw one man.

He is on a lawn. And he is eating the grass. Like a cow.

Because he has no food. Then I'm only young. Then I said, oh, this is terrible.

Is it possible to change that? Is it possible that the whole world could have enough food? If you start to think like that, then you are ready for a partner.

That's the motivation. It doesn't matter how you think about pizza. What you want.

Those are small things. Do you want to help other people? Then you should have a partner.

And finally all relationships with a partner you will reach a higher spiritual level. If you have a good relationship. If you learn how to have a relationship.

You can have romance. Buddha and Theravada have a great romance. It's like Dante and Vitrus.

Like Jesus and Mary. This is a famous romance. You can have romance.

And you will be like high, high romance. What you think about love, you can have. But if you learn it the way we are going to teach.

You can have a beautiful partner. You can have a good family. And that relationship will serve the whole world.

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Will help the whole world.

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So it's like a higher relationship. And that's what we're going to teach. Some people say it's too late.

I already have my husband. He's never going to be like that. But that's not true.

That's not true. If you already have a relationship, you can change it. And you can make it a higher relationship.

If you don't have a relationship, you can find it. So it's not too late for anybody. You can have some beautiful higher relationship.

And that's what we're going to talk about. Two nights here. First half tonight.

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Second half tomorrow night.

[Speaker 1]
In the three days retreat. I heard the retreat is full. I heard it's sold out.

I want you to try to find another hotel or something. OK, then we'll have a hard time now. Maybe people can stay here.

Maybe people can eat here. So that's your problem. But we should have more space.

We'll work it out. I don't know how. She's not in our hotel.

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I have a problem.

[Speaker 1]
And I beg you to please help me. Since years I'm lonely. And I really wish to have a nice, wonderful, beautiful partner.

That's all. That is not a problem at all. You only have to go to a nightclub.

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Because these places were invented to find bunkers.

[Speaker 1]
This is a bad idea. Very bad idea. I will tell you why.

The boy that goes to the nightclub is the kind of boy who goes to the nightclub. So he will call you from work and he will tell you that he needs to stay there. But actually he will still keep going to the nightclub.

So you don't want such a boy, right? So I will tell you what to do. There are many, many online websites for dating.

We just need to go on the internet. The internet, that's such a nonsense.

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If you find a guy on the internet the only thing you will see is the backside of his laptop.

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Because he will be on Facebook all the time and he will never spend time with you. Don't listen to him. You want the boy from the internet.

They are nice. No. Of course they are nice.

You should go to the nightclub. Of course they are nice. You should go to the internet.

I'm so confused. I really want to find a partner.

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But I don't know where. I should look for them. I heard about this great new website where there are these guys where you sign up and you get pictures of them.

I heard about this great new website where there are these guys where you sign up and you get pictures of them. I also heard about the nightclubs. You can meet people there.

I think I have an idea.

[Speaker 1]
You just need to check this room and go to the nightclub. It's a coffee shop. It's a star club.

It's great. And you have a coffee. The other person said no, no, you should go to the nightclub.

The other person said no, you should go to the internet. Now we start. It will take 5 days.

to decide what to do. But let's begin. Sometimes when you go on the internet, you can find a nice apartment.

Sometimes when you go on the internet, you don't find a nice apartment. Sometimes when you go to the club, you find a nice apartment. Sometimes when you go to the club, you don't find a nice apartment.

Am I right? It's correct. Everybody knows that.

Therefore, going to the club and going to the internet will not bring you an apartment. Also, going on the internet and going to the club will bring you an apartment. So, Buddhist people love this kind of thing.

You can find an apartment when the internet has an internet link. Also, you can't find an apartment when the internet has no internet link. But to make it simple, if the internet works sometimes and it doesn't work sometimes, then it doesn't work.

I can give the example of a car. If you buy a new car, three days a week it starts, four days a week it doesn't start. Is this a good car?

No. If you go to the club, sometimes you find a guy, and sometimes you don't find a guy, then going to the club is not the cause of finding a guy. There must be a deeper cause.

To understand that, or to make money, is the same. My Lama asked me to start a company. We will feed the refugees with the money.

Then I said, I don't like business. He said, shut up, go to New York. Start a business.

I don't like business and I hate New York. Let me stay in monastery. Why do you think I came?

He said, also in New York, when you start a business, it should be diamond. You know, like, that's even worse. Blood diamond.

All diamond people are bad people. Very greedy. You know, it's cheating people.

You want me to go to the worst city, join the worst business, be with the worst people. Yes! For almost one year I didn't go.

But he pushed me. And I went. He said, we will do experiment.

Do you understand karma? So, you all know karma. You heard the word karma.

But in the monastery we studied karma for 25 years. It's a lot of details. A lot of technique about karma.

You go to New York, you start a business, you make one million dollars in one year. As an experiment. To see, do you understand karma?

In that company now is 250 million. Per year. And two years ago, it has 10,000 members.

Three years ago Warren Buffet bought the company. Then we use some karma principles to make the company. Those principles, you can use for a partner.

To find a partner. Or to fix your partner. You can use those principles.

But don't be satisfied without a partner. Like the Buddha. If you meet a great partner, you can change the world.

If you understand how to have a deep relationship, a deep spiritual relationship, with your partner, you can change the world. It's a very beautiful, very important thing. But you have to understand the principles.

How to find them. And it's the same principles which we use for our business. So I want to teach you those principles.

You can find a beautiful partner. Or you can change the partner which you have. And that relationship can become a higher relationship.

And it will serve the whole world. And you will also be extremely happy. So that's the goal.

I will just give 5 more minutes. And then we take a break. So you have to focus.

During those 5 minutes. We will begin. With the principle.

Then for 5 days we will work on it. But I just want you to know the first principle. We teach this principle in every DCI level.

We already did it 3 times. My staff travels with me. All the coaches.

If I take out this pen, to start to explain these principles, they fall asleep immediately. Because they heard it 5000 times. I don't care.

You have to hear it again. Learn how to teach it. If you already heard this.

Watch how to teach it. Why? If I can teach you to find a holy high partner.

Or if I can teach you how to change your relationship now, to become a holy relationship. Which will help the whole world. And which will make you so happy.

Your whole life feels like a miracle. If I can show you that. In 5 days.

Then you can show somebody else. Then you should show somebody else. So from this moment on.

Watch how to teach it. And don't fall asleep. Here we go.

What is this thing? Don't be like British people. If I ask a question, you have to answer.

What is this thing? A pen. Now a question.

If a dog comes in here. Comes down this thing. How do you talk?

Did I show this thing to you? What will the dog do? With this thing.

Yeah, you're right. Does the puppy dog see that? As a pen.

No, they don't understand. They just see as something to chew. Human sees it as a pen.

Dog sees it as something to chew. Question for you. Who's correct?

Dog or human? It's a good answer. Of course both.

In America they say animal rights. The human will tell the dog. You're a very bad dog.

You ruined my pen. Don't ruin the pen. And the dog will say to the human.

Why are you writing with that? It tastes great. Both are correct.

Human is correct and dog is correct. Now important questions. If you want to find a beautiful partner.

Or if you want to change your relationship. To something beautiful and high. And romantic.

It's high. Holy. And very romantic.

You have to understand the next thing. If I take this pen. If I put it here.

Then I chase out all the humans. I tell them. There are refreshments outside.

There are very good ones. Then if I kick out the dogs. No humans here.

No dogs here. At that time. Is this a pen or a stick?

If the human comes back first. It will become a pen. If the dog comes back first.

It will become a stick. Am I right? Am I right?

Therefore. Can we say. This thing is coming from me.

You have to say. The pen is not coming from the pen. If the pen is coming from the pen.

Then the dog will try to write some poem. To his dog girlfriend. To his dog girlfriend.

You have a nice pen. But he doesn't. Because the pen is not a pen from this time.

When the human comes in. They see a pen. It must be coming from the human's mind.

How? How? You can close your eyes.

You can say. I don't want a pen. I want a gold.

If it's coming from me. Then I don't want a pen. You can also do one thing.

You can also do one thing. If it's coming from me. If it's coming from me.

It should be gold. That's why there's contact. It's still there.

It's coming from my mind. But I cannot change it. My thinking is something else.

There is a power in my mind and my gaze. It's like a seed in my mind and my gaze. And that seed is a Samadhi.

It forces me to sit. And the dog has a different seed. The dog's seed is Samadhi.

It forces me to sit. And it causes me to sit. So how did the seed get in my mind?

How did his seed get in his mind? I'll show you fast. Why are we talking about this?

Partner. Coming from you. How will you see your partner?

My partner is lazy. My partner never listens to me. My partner always criticizes me.

My partner doesn't want to be with us. It's all coming from you. If you understand the process, you can change it.

You can make them beautiful. Or you can find them. So how to plant a seed?

You cannot plant a seed by yourself. It's not possible. You need another person.

It's like they are the ground, and you are the farmer. Without the ground, you can't plant a seed. They are like the ground.

What is the seed? Find a person. Let's say I want a partner.

I'm looking for a partner. Like Beate is looking for a partner. She's looking in the night club.

She's looking on the internet. But she cannot find. Then in this system, we say, plant a seed.

What is the seed doing? Don't worry about looking in the night club. Looking online.

Don't waste your time. Why? Sometimes it works and sometimes it doesn't.

Sometimes it means it doesn't work. You said that. Don't do those things.

They don't work. What do you want me to do? Plant a seed.

Why? When you meet your partner, it's going to come from you. So you plant a seed.

Take control. Don't look for them. Make them.

Create them. That's much safer. You can make them the way you want.

How? Let's say... I don't know.

He wants a partner. So I want to plant a seed. I need to find another person who wants a partner.

Then I find him. Then he tells me, I'm looking for a partner. Like Mercedes.

Which he came here. She asked Jan, please help her. Jan said, let's go to Starbucks.

It's very important to do that at Starbucks. Because that's the last great American company. Economy beats someone.

Okay, so... I tell him... I must find someone who's looking for a partner.

I must tell him... Let's go to Starbucks. I will help you.

We can talk together. I'm also looking for a partner. Let's go to Starbucks together.

And we can help each other. When I say that... I hear myself talking.

Then that makes a recording in my mind. It puts a seed in my mind. Maybe three weeks later...

I'm sitting in Starbucks alone. I helped him to find a partner. That's a seed in my mind.

Then the door opens. Some beautiful lady... I'm mine.

She comes to my table. In this system, there are no accidents. Everything has a cause.

You talk to people. How did you meet your husband? How did you meet your wife?

Many people will say it was an accident. I was on the bus. Where are we here today?

Oh, we stayed last night in Zurich. We asked the husband how he met the wife. They said, we met in the art museum.

Then he said, well, what happened? Then he said, the wife called in mine. For the admission.

Then the husband got in line behind her. Then he said to her, excuse me. I have two tickets.

Then she said, I'm the director of the museum. Like that. It's easy.

30 seconds slower. You come out of the taxi. You go back in there.

It's like a miracle. They have two beautiful children. They are a zillion years old.

How did you meet each other? Then we say, accident. There's no accident.

Don't wait for accidents. You plan a scene. You plan something in your life.

How? Help somebody else who's looking for help. Take them to Starbucks.

Talk to them. Support them. This puts a ceiling.

Then later you would be sitting in Starbucks. You'd be waiting in line at the museum. And the guy would say, I have two tickets.

Then where did you come from? Why did you come at that moment? There's a reason.

It's the sea. There's no accident. Everything has a cause.

So we have to find that cause. And we have to create that meeting. So we'll talk more after break.

I'd like all the staff, teachers, to stand up. Yeah. Who else?

Aaron. These people, they traveled with me. Some of them live in Hamburg.

I trained them. For many years. They are very good about money making scenes.

They are very good about boyfriend making scenes. Energy scenes. Saving the world of scenes.

If you have a question during the break, talk to them. They are here for you for five days. They are just here to help you.

If you want to say something, you can say it now. It's also a wonderful scene. This is a lady.

The lady who sang the song. It's very good. See you in 15 minutes.

Then I went in the kitchen. 500. It's not really 500.

She said, she just tells them in the kitchen. Everywhere. She feels lonely.

She doesn't like to go in the kitchen. Then I spent almost 3-4 hours. I had to leave the kitchen.

People feel lonely. So step number two. Make a plan.

I will help a lonely person. From several older people. Oftentimes they are lonely.

So make a plan. To help somebody. Then step number three.

Help them. Step number two. How do you help them?

Step number three. Go to their home. Or person.

Talk to them. Bring them some flowers. Give them a book.

That will plant a seed. For a partner. Step number four.

When you go home. After that. Think about it.

What you did to help them. Then tomorrow. I will teach you the details.

Of the four steps. Then step number three. Is planting the seed.

That's a good seed. But if you don't know how to put the water. Fertilizer.

Farming technique. Mental seed planting technique. If you don't know how.

That seed will not grow. You can't even sit here. And if you don't take care of the seed.

It won't grow. So we have to study the four steps. Together tomorrow.

How to plant the seed. How to make the seed grow. You don't have to be lonely.

Nobody has to be lonely. Anybody can plant the seed. It doesn't matter what your age is.

It doesn't matter what you look like. If you plant the seed. It makes no reason to be lonely.

You can plant the seed. If you want to partner. There is no reason not to partner.

Just learn how to plant. The years of your life. They are passing.

You are losing. You shouldn't be alone. You shouldn't wait a long time.

Without a partner. That woman who came home to her home. She throws us away.

I feel so bad for her. I know how to find a partner. She has to plant the seed.

I can show her how to plant it. But she won't listen. She won't try.

She just lives like that. Then she is getting older. And I feel sad for her.

It's not necessary to be lonely. Just learn how to plant the seed. Some people they feel shy.

Where am I going to find a man? I'm 40, I'm thinking. I don't want to go to the McDonald's.

I feel stupid to go to the Internet.

[Speaker 2]
I want to meet somebody. But I don't know how to meet them.

[Speaker 1]
I'm a shy person. I don't talk to people easily. Who are strangers.

Also I got hurt. In my life. Many people, I was married before.

I had a problem. And now I'm afraid. I don't want to try to have a partner.

In this system. You can forget yourself. It doesn't matter what happened before.

It doesn't matter your age. And even if you are shy. In this system.

You don't have to talk to anybody. You don't have to go to a club. You don't have to go on the Internet.

Just plant the seed. And realize. You plant the seed.

And there is no stress. Just plant the seed. And realize.

It will grow. And you don't have to do anything. You don't have to go to the club.

Just plant the seed. Then the partner will come. Kind.

Affectionate. He will come. Just relax.

I will teach you tomorrow. Four steps. Just plant the seed.

And realize. He will come. I went to a yoga class.

I finished my business in 1999. I didn't work in a private business since 1999. I planted the seeds for money.

I planted the seeds for money. And money comes to me. Now it comes to me without a business.

Then people say, how? Then I say, OK, I went to a yoga class. In New York.

The teacher at that time was Darwin Chan. A great teacher. He does a lot.

He is 72 years old. He is 72. Then he is one of my teachers.

I went to his class. Then after the class, one guy came to me. My name is John.

I want to shake your hand. I said, nice to meet you. Then I said, I have to go now.

I went home. The next day I got an e-mail. It's from John.

I don't know how he got my e-mail. It's not a secret. He said, why didn't you send it?

I didn't know what he was talking about. I sent an e-mail back. From where?

Then he sent me an e-mail again. You look in your bag. I always carry this backpack.

Then he said, you look in your backpack.

[Speaker 2]
I looked inside.

[Speaker 1]
There is an envelope. I opened the envelope. Inside, to check.

I checked. Then I wrote an e-mail. Thank you.

Then I said, you don't know me. Why are you giving me this money? He said, I don't know why.

I just want to give it to you. Then I said, what am I supposed to do? He said, what are you doing?

Where did it come from? Why did I need it? There is no accident.

I planted many money seeds. They made a bunch. So, partner or partner?

Without anxiety. Without stress. I will teach you tomorrow.

Four steps. Relax. Just like a professor.

Maybe in the line at the museum. So, the last thing I would like to do tonight. One of the teachers here in Hamburg.

Her name is Ulla. She is going to teach us step number two. There is a meditation you can do.

Step number two. So, let's have a look.