«Дар освобождения», курс 34 «Победа над негативными мыслями», занятие 1

[Speaker 1]
Okay, I know some people are new. So, just to explain, when we do this offering, this just represents the whole world. If you're not sure how to do it, just ask someone else to help you.

I remember first time I tried to do this offering. Okay, so don't worry. You can learn.

[Speaker 2]
Okay?

[Speaker 1]
And it represents the whole world. Peaceful and happy. Okay?

And that's the payment for the class. So, I don't charge for these classes. We have to pay the hotel, and the airplane company, but we don't get paid for the class.

But, you do have to pay this. Okay? Then that's the cost of this class.

You have to promise. You will make the whole world mandala. Like Amitabha Paradise.

This is your promise. This is the payment before the class. This is ...

whole world is like Amitabha's Paradise. And I offer this to you for the class. Then at the end of the class, you have to pay me again.

Okay? Understand? Good price?

Okay. All right. So, in this retreat, we are studying a great book.

I think it's ... I love books. And I think this book is the greatest book in the world.

It's called Lam Rim. Say Lam Rim. Okay.

Lam means pa. For you to become Buddha. And a rim means step, step, step.

And this is a beautiful book about the steps to Buddhahood. You, yourself, become Buddha. And if you really listen carefully, try hard, really, you can become Buddha from this class.

Then you can help billions and billions of worlds, not people. Okay? In this lifetime.

And that's fun. And that's cool. And you can do it.

Just follow these steps. Then how are we going to do the steps? By the way, my teacher taught me this book three times.

It took 30 years to finish. And I thought in my life, I would like to finish the whole thing slowly one time. So, I thought it would take about 10 years.

Already, we did nine years. So, if you're new, I have to catch up nine years of work. But we can do.

Okay? I think it will take about 10 more years. So, relax.

Have fun. Big things take time. I cannot make you Buddha in one second.

It takes a few years of work. So, relax. Have fun.

It's not a big problem that you have to come to Bali for 10 years. For a vacation. With your family.

And I really appreciate people who brought their family. Yeah, thank you. We will work hard to teach the children.

And we'll have a mom and dad class, because I'm your same age. And so, in the future years, you're very welcome to bring your children. And your parents.

Grandparents. After you become grandparent, you still can come. Okay?

Alright, good. Thank you. Yeah, yeah.

So, tonight ... By the way, this class is a little bit long. Usually, I like to stop the class after one and a half hours.

It's difficult to sit for two hours. But, in a two hour class, if I give you a break, you will come back very slow, and still we only have one and a half hours. So, I'm sorry, in the evening, we will have two hour class.

Try to drink something. During the class, it's fine. I have one, two, three, four, five ...

I have six drinks. You can have three, okay? And drink something during the class.

If you drink things during the class, you will also have to go for a trip. And that's fine. If you have to get up, if you have to go to the toilet, don't be shy.

Don't be uncomfortable. Okay? Agree?

Okay. Alright. Then, because we have so many new people, I think about 50% new people.

I would like to review nine years of classes. And there's three ways I'm going to review. I know you heard it before.

Bi. The pen. Si bu zhong.

Four steps. And then, our lao gong. Two husbands.

Two husbands, okay? Then, these three things I will review. Some of you heard them many times.

I don't care. In the jin, it says, if you understand the pen well, and then at the swimming pool, you fall down. You break your head.

You die tomorrow. If the last thing you did was to listen to the pen, you cannot become an animal. Okay?

[Speaker 2]
You cannot go down.

[Speaker 1]
Impossible. Okay? So, that's why I teach the pen again and again and again.

It's not I forgot that I taught it. It's I want to protect you. Okay?

So, listen carefully. If you heard it many times, then learn how to teach it. Watch me explain it.

Try to guess what will Geshe-la say next. Then, when you fly back home, you sit on the plane next to you. Somebody asks, what's your name?

You can say, do you know about the pen? Okay? I do it on the airplane.

If you sit next to me on the airplane, maybe you don't find out my name, but you find out the pen. So, just imagine, on the airplane, or at your work, you have a chance to protect someone from becoming animal. Just by talking about the pen.

Maybe that's the best thing you ever did in your whole life. So, learn how to do it. I'm going to do it right now.

And you guess, what's Geshe-la going to say next? Okay? Alright.

And then you do it with other people. If you really want to become ACI teacher, we have three teacher training every year, right Tim? One time in Mexico, in the summer.

Two times in America, in the spring and the fall. I know Tim is going to start branch teacher training program. For Chinese speaking countries, Russian speaking countries.

Okay? Soon? I think within two years, right Tim?

Okay. Then you can become ACI teacher. Alright, here we go.

I like this idea. Alright, here we go. Teaching the pen is an old, old tradition.

2,000 years old. And the old, old style of teaching is the teacher asks a question. Then you give an answer.

And we learn this way.

[Speaker 2]
Okay?

[Speaker 1]
So, here we go. I gave this talk at a British Airways. They have nine vice presidents.

I took them to the countryside outside of London. I taught them for two days. First thing was a pen.

Then I said, I'm going to ask a question, you give me an answer. And I said, what is this thing? Then all of us nine vice presidents.

No answer. I said, what's this thing? Okay, don't be British vice president, okay?

Okay, give me a good answer. What's this thing? Yeah, not just the people in the front, people in the back.

I'm watching you, I'm watching you. Later, I'm giving away money. Okay?

But if people in back don't say anything, I won't go in the back. Okay? What's this thing?

Oh, nice. Oh, Stanley, look. A small dog come here.

I show this to the dog. What would they do? Yeah, they will bite it.

Question. Wen di la la. Wen di la la.

Question comes. Does the dog ... Now, difficult question, two parts, two parts.

Is the dog looking at a pen? Yeah, looking at a pen. But do they see a pen?

No, they don't see. What do they see? Something to chew.

Who's correct? Dog or human? Both are correct.

Why? Why? Dog can chew.

No problem. Human can write. That's no problem.

That's fine. Okay? So, both, both are correct.

Now, listen. You came to Bali. On the first night, you learned what many people didn't learn for 2,000 years.

What is kong xin? Very important. Like that.

Then, what is kong xin? Now, listen. I put this thing on the chair.

Then I tell, what's next? What's next? Oh, yeah.

All the dogs go out. All the people go out. Room is empty.

At that time, is this pen or is this chew toy? Which one? She gave the good answer.

She gave the good answer. She go ... It means nothing.

It's nothing. That's real kong xin. There's nobody here.

Is it chew toy or pen? She said, it's nothing. That's real kong xin.

Why? That kong xin can help you. My teacher asked me, you go to New York.

You start a business. I said, what's the business plan? Kong xin.

He said, kong xin, emptiness. How to use? Then he taught me.

I will teach you. That became the largest jewelry company in the world. Warren Buffett bought it in 2009.

Then the newspaper in New York. How you do that? I said, kong xin.

Emptiness. Kong xin. Let's tell you what is kong xin, not kong xin.

Three wrong ideas. They will not make a company that Warren Buffett will buy. Here's the first one.

Oh, what's a kong xin? Close your eyes. Cross your feet.

Chin mudra. Close eyes. It's a black, black, black.

Will Warren Buffett buy that? No. It doesn't help you.

It doesn't make you success. If you understand kong xin, you can make the biggest jewelry company in the world. No problem.

What's the second wrong idea about kong xin? Don't think about anything. If that thought come into mind, let it go.

Like a cloud in the sky. Okay, it doesn't help you. Really, it won't help you.

What's the karma if you sit for one hour every day and try to think about nothing? Do you know there's a new dance now? In the world?

Whole world. There's a new dance. Watch.

Hi, Stanley. What's up? I want to show you something on my phone.

It means I lost my phone. I left my phone in the taxi. You can see the whole world.

Everybody dancing. Where's my phone? If you meditate like this, try to think about nothing.

You plant a seed in your mind to lose your phone every day. Is it interesting to Warren Buffett? No.

Okay, what's the third one? Cross your legs. Start.

Nothing good. Nothing bad. Stay neutral.

If someone kiss you, don't smile. If someone hit you, don't get angry. Equanimity.

There's no good thing. There's no bad thing. Also, after you become Buddha, you must stay not happy, not sad.

Forever. You see those paintings of Amitabha's paradise? Everybody's smiling.

Okay, why? It feels good. It's a happiness.

So, this idea, stare at the wall, don't be happy, don't be sad, it doesn't help you. What is kong qing? Kong qing is the pen is on the chair.

Okay? And all the people went out. And all the dogs went out.

It's just there. Then that's kong. Then Geshe Michael comes back.

Hi Stanley. What's new? Oh, what's that?

Then, when I'm here, that is nothing. When I'm here, nothing. When I'm here, nothing.

When I'm here, nothing. When I look down, nothing becomes something. Kong qing becomes pen.

Why? I have seed in my mind. Okay?

That seed open. When? Open.

Then picture come out of my mind. Picture goes on this thing. And it becomes a pen.

Small pen picture come out of my mind. Oh, Geshe la, why I didn't see this pen picture come out of my mind my whole life? It's too fast.

It's 65 per second. Going very fast. Like a video.

If the hotel has a lousy internet, you watch a movie, it's like that, okay? Most movie is a 40, sorry, 24 frames per second. Okay, your life, 65 frames per second.

Geshe la, why so many? Movie just have a seeing and hearing. Your life have smelling, tasting, feeling, thinking.

It needs a better internet plan. 65 per second. You can't see it.

If you meditate every day, one day you will see it. I'm waiting for that day. Why?

You will call me up, you will email me. Geshe la, Geshe laoshi, you were right. I know I'm right.

But you will experience directly. If you meditate every day. So, I'm here.

Kong Kong Kong Kong Kong Kong Kong Bi Okay? See? Zongzi open.

And I see pen. Now, suppose I have a different seed.

[Speaker 2]
Different seed.

[Speaker 1]
Eh, eh, eh, eh Eh, eh, eh, eh The kids like it. Eh, eh, eh, eh Kong Kong Kong Kong Kong Kong Kong Kong Kong Kong Kong Okay, I understand. So, depends on your seed.

the nothing becomes something. So, now, question. You guys tell me.

This pen. Pen come from the pen? Or?

Pen come from me. Which one? Yeah!

She said pen come from you. Very good. Pen come from me.

Now, listen. If one thing comes from you, from your seed, that means everything comes from you. Your husband, your kids, your job, your city, your country, even this talk.

If you don't like my talk, don't forget, it comes from you. Okay? Alright?

If you like my talk, that comes from me. No, just kidding, just kidding. Everything comes from you.

If you plant the seed. So, I don't have any business experience. I meditate for 30 years in the monastery.

Geshe, I don't know anything about business. Nothing. Then my teacher said, you go to New York.

You start business. I'm like, I don't want to go to New York. What did he say?

Shut up. You go to New York. Then I'm like, why?

I want you to try planting seeds. New York will be your laboratory. You can see if everything comes from seeds or not.

You plant the seeds for a great business. Then we see what happens. If the seed is correct, you will make the largest jewelry company in the world.

Okay? It works. So, you can also use.

You just have to learn how to plant the seed. By the way, it took 9 years. We finished all this.

But some new people. So, tonight, just for new people. Tomorrow, I will smash you with new ideas.

Tonight is just 9 years review. So, everything in your life is the same as the pen. Kong, kong, kong, kong, kong, kong, kong, kong.

If you see, if you want good thing, just learn how to plant the seed. You can have anything. One woman told me, Geshe-la, can you use four steps to plant your husband?

Of course. She said, but if what you say is true, I can plant the husband seed. Then I can go to my apartment.

I can lock the door. If the husband come from me, he will come to my apartment. I said, you try.

So, she plant the husband seed. She buy two weeks of groceries. She went to her apartment.

Lock the door. If the husband come from me, he can find his way in. Then she wait.

One day, nothing happen. Two days, nothing happen. Third day, FedEx delivery.

FedEx deliver guy knock on the door. She open the door. They got married.

Okay, understand? Okay, why? He come from seed.

Just plant the seed. Then don't worry. With the seed, nothing is impossible.

You can do anything. So, Geshe-la, how to plant the seed? How to plant the seed?

Four steps. Okay, let's do su-pa-chok. I'm going to teach you the four steps.

I'm supposed to use $100. But Jasmine gave me more. If I don't spend it, I'm a little bit stupid.

Let's do $400. Okay, let's go, let's go. Camera can follow?

Camera can follow? Camera is there. Okay, let's go that way.

Those guys think I'm coming there. You okay? You okay?

Uta? Is that Uta? That's Connie.

Okay, here we go. Okay, look at camera. Okay, now, please don't stand up.

Please don't stand up. Then everybody can see. Just the camera people stand up.

Okay, now, I have suggestion. Take out your phone. Make a video.

This is the most important video in your life. Okay, so I give permission. You can make a video.

Okay, where's your phone? Come on, come on. Okay, now, this video, just, by the way, if you are very far, you can make video from the screen.

It's the same guy. Okay? Alright.

Now, this video is just for you. Please don't put on WeChat. I will get trouble.

Okay? I will get trouble. Please, just for you, for your family, for your friends, don't put on WeChat.

Okay, now, this video, two minutes, three minutes. Tomorrow morning, please, please, please, when you are eating breakfast, look at that handsome guy's video again. Okay, next day, second day, look at that handsome guy's video again.

Not Stanley, me. Okay, third day, look at the video again. Then use it.

You don't need me. You need the fourth step. Geshe-la is just a postman.

Okay? You use the video. You become success.

You have a happy life. Next time I see you, buy me a good Mapo Tofu. Okay?

That's enough. This is not about Geshe-la. This is about you.

Okay? You need the fourth step. Okay, so here's a two-minute video.

You're going to look at it three times. And then rest of your life, you make the biggest jewelry company in the world. Or you marry the most cool guy in the world.

Or you do ballet when you are 66. Okay, understand? Healthy.

Okay? Energy. Okay, fourth step.

Step number one. You must decide what do you want. Okay?

You want money? I finance freedom. I can go to Bali all the time.

Okay? I have beautiful house. I have beautiful car.

I send my kids to the best university. Then I have money. Or, you want beautiful family.

You want your husband to wash the dishes. Use the fourth step. He will do.

Understand? Or, you want to be healthy. I will be 67 next week.

Okay? I'm doing ballet. Okay?

Usually, ballet retire at 25. Okay? You can be healthy.

Then inside, happy. Super happy. Okay?

Most important, you can give those things to other people. Okay? You can help to make a whole world happy.

You can be Spiderman. Superwoman. You can do.

If you know the fourth step. So, number one. You decide what do you want.

What's Geshe-la want tonight? Geshe-la has 400 US dollars. Geshe-la want to make investment.

This 400 dollars, by next week, I want become 4,000 dollars. This, tonight, is not a demonstration. This is how Geshe Michael make money himself.

I'm planting seed with 400 dollars. Why? I want 4,000 dollars.

So, my goal, step number one. I want 4,000 dollars. Okay, step number two.

You cannot plant a seed without another person. Can you play basketball without a floor? Okay, no, you need a floor.

Boing boing, boing boing, boing boing. What is karma? Boing boing, boing boing, boing boing.

She's my basketball floor. Okay, so number two. You must have seed planting partner.

And that partner must want the same thing. Let's check. What's your name?

Wang Na. Okay, so I ask Wang Na a difficult question. Very serious question.

Do you want 400 dollars tonight for free? What? Okay, she said, oh, she answered yes.

I'm so surprised. Okay, step number three is planting the seed. We are actually planting the seed.

Okay, so I ask Wang Na please raise your hand. Okay, you help me, okay? Okay?

One, two, three. Okay, see this plant? I plant the seed.

It's very, very important to understand karma. How put karma in your mind? You must see yourself.

Do something. Say something. Think something.

You must witness yourself. Then this picture hand is opening. That picture come to this window.

Picture come to this window. And that picture touch the window. Then goes through the window.

Touch my mind. Look. Makes impression on my mind.

After two hours that impression become a seed in my subconscious mind. Okay, I see make impression after two hours become a seed in my mind. That's the good news.

You want the bad news? It will take 100 years before the seed open. Geshe-la will make his $4,000 in the next life.

My teacher told me next life. I said to teacher, listen, I'm American. We don't like next life.

We want it now. We invented McDonald's. If you work at McDonald's, if they say make a french fry, then they have a timer.

If you take more than two minutes, McDonald's fire you. Okay? I told my teacher, I love you, but I'm American.

We invented fast food. I don't want to wait next life I get my $4,000. I want it next week.

He's like, oh next week. You need step number four. If you do step number four, it puts water on the seed.

Then the seed will open fast. You know many people. They help other people.

They didn't make Warren Buffett bought their company. Why? Step number four.

They don't know. So, I'm telling you now big big secret, big big secret. Big big secret.

Okay? I'm telling you big secret. Step number four.

How to put the water on the seed. How Geshe-la make his $4,000 next week. Very easy.

Do you have an answer for me? Wang-na, answer. What's step number four by the way?

She said coffee meditation. Perfect, thank you. You earned it, she earned the $400.

Tonight, when Geshe-la go to his room, okay, put his head on the pillow, last thing before you sleep, what thought you have in your mind when you go to sleep, it will cook in your mind, whole night. It's very important. Don't think about your problems when you go to bed.

Don't talk to your husband when you go to bed. You will fight, okay? Don't think about your problems.

No, I'm just kidding about that. But when you go to sleep, don't go to sleep like that. Oh, my husband angry at me.

Oh, my kids not study to go to university. Oh, I don't have enough money. If you think like that when you go to sleep, don't worry, cook whole night.

It's very important. When your head touch a pillow, think about the good seed you planted today. Don't think about other things.

Oh, tonight, I met Wang An. Wang An. I gave her $400.

She, she's so happy. Me also happy. Then she, then fall asleep.

Good translator, good translator. Okay, good. Then fall asleep.

Thinking about your good seed. Never fall asleep thinking about your problems. Think about your problems tomorrow.

In the dark at night, the problem gets big, big, big, big. Think about your problems at breakfast. Fix a nice breakfast.

It's time to eat. Oh, it's time to think about my problems. Then your problems will get small very fast.

Nice breakfast. Bright sunlight. Your problems automatically get small.

You want to think about your problems? Okay, but please do at breakfast. At night, when you go to sleep, it's a very bad time to think about your problems.

[Speaker 2]
Why?

[Speaker 1]
You are tired. Okay? It's dark outside.

Problem get big, big, big. Okay? Promise, okay?

Café Ming Xiang. When you go to sleep, think about the good things you did. In your whole life.

Okay, please promise. Promise? Okay, that's the fourth step.

That's the fourth step. Okay? Every night.

Okay? Okay, thank you. Okay, enough video.

Okay? Don't forget, you have to watch it tomorrow. Then the next day.

Then the next day. Then the next day. Then the next day.

Become success. After that, to be honest, you don't need me. Okay?

It's not about me. This program, it's about you. You use the fourth step.

You become success. You share the fourth step.

[Speaker 2]
Okay?

[Speaker 1]
Okay. Alright. So, three ...

my goal tonight is to teach you three things. Number one. The ...

Number two. Four steps. Okay?

You are doing nine years of work in one night. So lucky. Now, third important jing.

Okay? The B is like a shin jing. Four steps is like jing kang jing.

Now, we go advance. The two husband. Okay?

The two husband. Okay? If you understand these three things, nine years of work you finish.

Okay, so here's the two husband. I need two husbands. Tim.

Jamie. That's two. Two most handsome guys.

You want to drink something? What is that? Oh, it's something.

Okay, drink something.

[Speaker 2]
Drink something.

[Speaker 1]
Other son. Okay, two most handsome guys. Let's give a hand for Tim.

He's the president of ACI. And Jamie. He start the knowledge base.

[Speaker 2]
Okay?

[Speaker 1]
Yay. Five thousand free video, audio. Five thousand.

Free. Online. Because of Jamie.

Yay. Cool. By the way, many in Chinese language.

Okay? So, every day you should watch one. After breakfast.

Don't forget. During breakfast, oh, think about your problem. Okay?

Then after breakfast, there's a five thousand video. Okay, watch one. Driving to work.

Just listen to one. Then you'll be happy. Alright, we're going to do the two husbands.

Here's the story. Hundred years ago, all the work in the family has a clear division. The husband's responsibility is go to work, make the money.

Okay? The wife's responsibility is take care of kids, do cooking, buy the grocery. Okay?

This is the old system, 100 years ago. Nowadays, good new system. The wife's job, take care of kids, do the cooking, buy the grocery, and make the money.

Then the husband is free to watch the television. Good deal? I like it.

It's very good for the husband. New system. So, let's say I'm a normal housewife.

I'm coming from Guangzhou. You know, I'm working every day. In the morning, I have to take the kids to school.

I work a whole day. I'm tired. Then I have to go after work to buy the grocery, pick up the kids, come home, cook also.

Completely exhausted. Okay? Then it's hard.

[Speaker 2]
Okay?

[Speaker 1]
Let's say I'm the housewife. Then I work all day. Let's say on Thursday, I work the whole day.

Then when I'm leaving the job to pick up my kids, the boss catch me. He say, huh, you going home? Yeah.

Don't forget. What? Tomorrow morning, special telephone call meeting to overseas client.

Different time zone. Okay? You must come one hour early.

Okay? Don't come nine o'clock. Come eight o'clock.

Now listen. Understand? What's understand mean?

If you late, I fire you. He say, understand? It means if you are late, I fire you.

Understand? Yes, yes. Okay?

Then mom will go home. It's very important to meet the two kids. You guys going to be my kids?

I think Sidney is a good kid. You two guys be my kids? Okay, these are my two kids.

Okay? Then of course I have to tell them about the plan. Listen kids.

Mommy's boss, he caught me when I left the job. Tomorrow, you come one hour early. Not nine o'clock.

Eight o'clock. Then he said, understand? It means you will fire me.

Our family will have difficulty. So, tomorrow, we will go to school one hour early. You have to help mommy.

Okay, please. You have your clothes on. Shoes are tied.

Homework is all finished. You are ready to go. Seven o'clock.

Agree? Yes. You are the best kids in Guangzhou.

I'm very proud of you guys. I have the best kids in Guangzhou. Next morning, seven o'clock, open the door.

What? What's going on? What are you doing?

What? You don't have shoes. Oh, you're in pajamas.

Where's the ... Oh my god. Mommy going to get fired.

You are most stupid kids in Guangzhou. Okay. Why those kids cry?

They heard mommy's bad words. Did anybody else hear mommy's bad words? Yeah.

Who? Mommy heard. Watch.

You are most stupid kids in Guangzhou. All each word make impression on a mommy's mind. This also window.

[Speaker 2]
This also window.

[Speaker 1]
Then, after two hours, becomes seed. Mommy just plant many seeds. Many bad seeds.

Then, go to school. Thank you kids. Rush to the job.

Little bit late. You tell the boss, I don't know, there was a bad traffic on the road. Everything's okay.

Next week, okay? You're coming home on Tuesday. You go shopping.

Pick up the groceries. Pick up those two kids. Come home.

Completely tired. Okay? You tell your friend, I'm so tired.

[Speaker 2]
I have to do the job.

[Speaker 1]
I have to buy the groceries. Take care of those kids. It's a hard life I have.

And I have to cook. But, one good thing in my life. What?

Husband. He gives the best hug in the world. He's the number one hugger in whole China.

Come on, I show you. Come on. Honey, I'm home.

I'm ready. Phat Thong. What?

He call me Phat Thong. I didn't do anything. I didn't say anything.

I just open the door. Phat Thong. He call me Phat Thong.

I didn't do anything. Is it true? Gender?

Gender? She didn't do anything? Yeah.

She yelled at the kid. Last week. She plant the seed.

Okay? Now, give me a good answer. Don't get sleepy.

I also have jet lag. I come home. I didn't do anything.

He start yelling at me.

[Speaker 2]
I didn't do anything.

[Speaker 1]
You did do something. What? You plant a seed.

Last week. Watch. Honey, I'm home.

Phat Thong. Open seed. Watch.

Honey, I'm home.

[Speaker 2]
Phat Thong.

[Speaker 1]
Same as a pen. Come from me. You understand?

Okay? Come from me. Whose fault?

My fault. My fault. Now.

I'm very surprised about you guys. Little bit strange. Nobody ask me.

Geshe-la. Wenti. Why you have two husband?

Nobody ask me. You supposed to ask me. Yeah.

Why you have two husband? Oh.

[Speaker 2]
Come on.

[Speaker 1]
Let me explain about my husband. Now, listen. Why I have two husband?

This husband. He come from me. Come from my seed.

Just like the pen. We can call him Mr. Pi. This one.

Come from me. This husband. Yeah.

Mr. Bi. Mr. Bi. This one.

Switch, switch, switch. This one. What's his name?

I didn't do anything. He yell at me. I didn't do anything.

His name. What? Mr. I didn't do anything. He yell at me. I just open the door. How many times you said in your life?

I didn't do anything. He yell at me. This one.

Mr. I didn't do anything. This one. Mr. Bi. Come from me. Now, important question. Ready?

One of this husband really exist. One of this husband don't exist. Cannot exist.

Okay, now, here is Mr. Bi husband. Exist or not? Yeah, exist.

This one real. This one come from me. But this one fake husband.

Fake husband. I didn't do anything. This one don't exist.

Understand? This one don't come from seed. This one not like the pen.

This one not possible. Why? Everything comes from seed.

Everything comes from seed. If one thing comes from seed, then everything comes from seed. Understand?

This one fake. Fake husband. Don't come from me.

This one real husband. Just like a bee. Come from me.

Now, big, big, big question. Very, very big. Big, big question.

When you get angry in the kitchen, in the kitchen, which one you angry at? Listen. You can't ...

Stand up. You can't get angry at this one. Why?

He come from you. You made him. Okay?

You're not going to get angry at him. If you understand, he come from you. You're not going to get angry.

Right? It's your fault. Okay?

Don't get angry. He didn't do anything. He's very typical husband.

We can say, he didn't do anything. Never mind. Never mind.

This one come from me. Of course, I understand. I won't get angry at him.

But this one, I didn't do anything. He start to yell at me. Okay?

Now, watch. If you focus on this husband. Here we go.

Honey, I'm home. Now, when I look at that one, I didn't do anything. Understand?

Now, this one.

[Speaker 2]
Okay.

[Speaker 1]
Now, next question. When your husband call you phantom, how to prove he's correct? You are real phantom.

How to prove? Watch.

[Speaker 2]
Watch.

[Speaker 1]
Ready? I'm home. I'm not phantom.

[Speaker 2]
You're phantom.

[Speaker 1]
You just prove you are phantom. Jenda the phantom. Jenda is phantom.

You prove it. Why? You give answer.

You give answer. Now, again. What will happen next week?

Now, I have bad seed. I'll show you. If I answer him, I'm not phantom.

You're phantom.

[Speaker 2]
Hi, kid. Mom is home. How are you guys?

[Speaker 1]
They are fighting. Okay. Why?

I have bad seed. Who put the bad seed in me? I did.

Where? In the kitchen. Let's do the whole thing again.

You're in the most stupid kitchen, in Guangzhou. Honey, I'm home. I'm not phantom.

[Speaker 2]
You're phantom.

[Speaker 1]
Kids are... Oh, you're fighting again. Most stupid kids in Guangzhou.

Honey, I'm home. Phantom. Phantom.

Stupid kid. Phantom. Stupid kid.

Wheel of life. England. Okay?

England. Your whole life like that. You get angry at your husband.

You're stupid. Put seed here. Next week kids are bad.

It's a wheel of life. Sansara. Who made it?

You did. Now, very important. What I teach for nine years, I can teach you in five minutes.

Two most important things in the world. Number one, Ingo. Number two, Kongxin.

They are brother. You can use your cell phone. Ingo.

Kongxin. Ingo. Kongxin.

Never can have Ingo without Kongxin. They are two sides of the same cell phone. They always go together.

Where's the Ingo? In the family. Like this.

Ingo.

[Speaker 2]
Ingo.

[Speaker 1]
Now, for $100, Okay. Where's the emptiness in the kitchen? Where's the emptiness in the kitchen?

Russian. Where's the emptiness in the kitchen? I'm just asking.

Where's the emptiness in the kitchen? That's the question. I want the answer.

Okay. I want him to translate. Okay.

Where's the emptiness in the kitchen? Jamie.

[Speaker 2]
Yay!

[Speaker 1]
Which one Kongxin? Which one Ingo? Who's Kongxin?

Jamie Kongxin.

[Speaker 2]
Why?

[Speaker 1]
He's not there. He's not there. I didn't do anything husband.

There's no husband in any kitchen. Which is, I didn't do anything. Okay.

He's not real. He's not in the kitchen. He's the emptiness in the kitchen.

Emptiness means the husband who's not your fault. He don't exist. He don't even exist.

Okay. You can call him, I didn't do anything. You can also call him Kongxin the husband.

Okay, understand? This one, impossible. Impossible.

Everything your husband do come from you. Everything your husband say. Everything your husband do.

Ingo. Mr. Ingo.

[Speaker 2]
Come from you.

[Speaker 1]
How to prove you don't understand Buddhism? Call him stupid. Call him dundun.

Then it means you don't understand anything about Buddhism.

[Speaker 2]
Okay? You don't understand anything.

[Speaker 1]
Okay, you ready? $100 question. Thanks for the money mom.

My mom give me money. Thanks mom. Okay.

Question. What's the question? I forgot the question.

I'll just keep it. No, no, no. Okay, next question.

So, he's a Kongxin. And he's the Ingo. Okay?

So, what's the best thing to do when I come in the kitchen? Nirpan. Nirpan.

Nirvana. Where's the nirpan? In the kitchen.

What's the nirpan? In the question. In the kitchen.

[Speaker 2]
That lady.

[Speaker 1]
In the white. Okay, I'll ask the question again. Where is the nirpan in the kitchen?

Stop your mouth. $100. $100.

Okay, here's the nirpan. Here comes the nirpan. Honey, I'm home.

I'm tired. I'm tired of this wheel of life. It makes me tired.

Let's stop it. That's nirpan. If you cannot control yourself, go to the toilet.

If you have to yell, go to the toilet. Open the door. Look in the mirror.

You're a phantom. Understand? Then it's correct.

[Speaker 2]
That's correct.

[Speaker 1]
That's real nirpan. Now, some people told me, Geshe-la, why you keep making this fun story? Why you talk about the kitchen and the kids?

You supposed to teach the jing. We came to Bali to hear the jing. We didn't come here to hear about the kitchen.

Listen. Jing kang jing was made for the kitchen.

[Speaker 2]
Okay?

[Speaker 1]
It wasn't made for the temple. It wasn't made for the temple. Jing kang jing was made for kitchen.

You supposed to use the jing kang jing. Go to the temple. Recite the jing kang jing.

Anybody can do. It doesn't help your family. Use the jing kang jing in the kitchen.

There's nothing in the jing you cannot use in the kitchen. And there's nothing in the kitchen you cannot find in the jing. Jing kang jing was made for your happiness.

You supposed to use it in the kitchen. How much? Okay, fine.

Thank you. Okay, good husband. Come on.

Okay, that's a nine years review. Okay? We did a nine ...

nine years review. Drink something. Okay?

Tomorrow bring water. Bring something to drink with you. The brain needs water.

The dharma needs the brain. So the dharma needs the water. Now we're ready to start the jing.

We have half hour, am I right? Yeah, nine o'clock, right? Yes, yes, yes.

Okay, so let's go. After nine years in the jing we reached klesha. Say klesha.

Klesha. Klesha. They didn't do anything.

One, two, three. Klesha. Nice.

Okay. Klesha means Sanskrit word angry mind. Got upset.

Upset. Upset mind. Okay?

Klesha. Klesha. Now, in the Abhidharma, oldest Buddhist book, 2,000 years ago, very famous book.

Stanley is translating it. I pick a young translator because to translate that book will take 27 years. We have plan.

27 years. We finish three years. He will finish in 2046.

His hair will look like my hair. And I will be in the nursing home. We will finish that book.

Really, we are working on it. 2046 he will finish. Fourth chapter.

Okay? Very famous. Okay?

LAS LAS GCIG RTEN GNAD BCUG STE The whole world, the whole universe, all the stars, all the planets, this whole world, all the people come from karma. LAS means karma. LAS means from karma.

GCIG RTEN GNAD BCUG means whole universe. K means come from your karma. Then, what is karma?

SEMS PAR YID KYI LAS YIN NO SEMS PAR YID KYI LAS YIN NO Karma, three kinds. Number one, raw karma. Most basic karma.

Thinking. What you think in your mind. This is raw karma.

SEMS PAR YID KYI LAS YIN NO And then the mental karma, it will move your mouth. And it will move your hands. When you yell at your kids, Hey, stupid kids.

Hey, stupid kids. No, most stupid kids. Okay.

Why I say that? One moment before that, I think kids are supposed to be ready. I don't know why they're fighting.

I talk in my own mind. Then, after that, Oh, you stupid kids. Okay, understand?

Mind karma comes first. Then it pushes the mouth. And it pushes the body.

So, there are three kinds of karma. Number one, thinking. Thinking is karma.

Just thinking. Okay, listen. I'm thinking in my mind.

I told the kids to be ready. Now they're fighting. I'm so tired of that.

Then thinking pushes my mouth. You most stupid kids. Okay, understand?

So, three kinds of karma.

[Speaker 2]
Very famous.

[Speaker 1]
Which one is first? Thinking. One moment before.

Kids are stupid. Okay, watch. Kids are stupid.

Okay, thinking. Make the mouth to move. Okay, understand?

Then those three. Thinking. Talking.

Waving my arm. What they create? What do they make?

[Speaker 2]
So, those are karma.

[Speaker 1]
Those are seed. Those make a seed. What does the seed make?

Now, listen. I just told you. Everything in the jing is in the kitchen.

Everything in the kitchen is in the jing. Okay, when I get upset mind, then my mouth moves. Most stupid kids.

Then what happens? Somebody tell me. Yeah, if I yell at my kids, then what comes out of that?

What happens to me in the kitchen? What happens to me in the kitchen? Speak in Chinese.

[Speaker 2]
Your husband will call your husband.

[Speaker 1]
I give the money to mom. Who's the mom? Your kid earned the college money.

Your mom going to give to you at the college. Okay?

[Speaker 2]
Yeah.

[Speaker 1]
Okay. Okay. I plant the seed.

Okay? By talking. Then in the kitchen, husband call me phantom.

Then I get angry. Okay? Now, question for you.

If I understand seed, will I get angry at my husband? No, not possible. Husband say, you are phantom.

Then if you are a good Buddhist, you use the jing in the difficult time. Not in the temple. It's easy to sit in the temple and read the Jingang Jing.

That's not why Buddha made Jingang Jing. Buddha made Jingang Jing to take to the kitchen. Use it in the kitchen.

Honey, I'm home. Okay? Then don't get upset.

Who made the husband? You did. Why you blame him?

He didn't do anything. You make him. You can't blame the pen.

He's like a pen. He come from you. Calm down.

Calm down. Don't call him phantom. You're going to make a circle.

Whole life. Circle, circle, circle, circle. You know people like that.

They yell at their kids. Next week, husband yell. They yell at the husband.

Next week, kids are bad. They yell at the kids. Then the husband yell.

It's a big circle. Or you yell at your husband. You go to work.

Your boss yell at you. Who made the boss to yell at you? You did.

Now, I'll tell you something very funny. You understand now how to be good Buddhist person. And really, now you can reach nirvana.

Nirvana means no one can make you upset. That's nirvana. Oh, Geshe-la.

I'm so happy. I came to Bali. First night, you taught me how to reach nirvana.

Just when I go to the kitchen, husband call me stupid. I just have to remember who plant the seed. Now, tonight, we gave the real meaning of kongshin.

It's called jimmy. Okay? And tonight, we gave the real meaning of Wheel of Life.

It's called yell at husband yells. Sorry, yell at kids, husband yells. Yell at kids, husband yells.

Yell at husband, kids are bad. Yell at kids, husband yells. Yell at husband, kids are bad.

[Speaker 2]
Okay?

[Speaker 1]
We studied it. You did the whole Buddhism tonight. Actually, we can go home.

Okay? We don't need to stay for six days. You did the whole Buddhism.

But, if you meet your husband tonight, tonight, if you meet your husband tonight, in the hotel room, and he say, Honey, you're a real phantom. You will forget all of your Buddhism in one second. Special blessing of the good explanation of Buddhism.

Tonight, something will happen. Somebody will call you stupid. You will have problem with somebody.

Problem with somebody. And you will forget everything I just talked about. Therefore, we have to repeat for six or seven days.

Again and again and again. Okay? This is Dharma.

This is Buddhism. We cannot remember in one talk. Okay?

If the husband call me phantom tonight, all my Buddhism will disappear. Okay? Therefore, we study, study, study.

So, now we're ready to start the book. Okay? And I'm going to use the jing.

Okay? There's a book. You got a book.

And there's a picture of a sword. What's the page number? Anybody got the number?

Number one? Page one? There's a sword.

Am I right? Yeah, we can use one. Thank you.

There's a sword. And there's a list of six things. Okay?

Six things. We are ready to start the class. Okay?

We will do 15 minutes tonight. Tomorrow, in the morning, we will do three hours.

[Speaker 2]
Okay?

[Speaker 1]
We will start with the meditation. Then we'll take a little break. Then we'll do total three hours.

Your butt, pigu, will hurt. Your mind will improve. There's connection, pigu and mind.

Okay? Three hours. Difficult.

Difficult for you and difficult for me. But we will do hard work. Okay?

And then we study klesha. What is klesha? Upset mind.

In the kitchen. My husband, he calls me stupid. I didn't do anything.

Every day. He calls me stupid. I don't know why.

There's two sufferings in life. Number one suffering. Husband is bad.

Kids are bad. That's a number one suffering. What's a number two suffering?

I don't know. Why? When we meet each other, my husband is so nice.

Always give me flowers. Always call me honey. Then now, he calls me phantom.

And in the beginning, my kids are so nice. Now they're fighting all the time.

[Speaker 2]
Okay?

[Speaker 1]
Two kinds of suffering. Number one, fighting kids yelling husband. Number two, I don't know why.

Before he was so nice. My kids used to be so peaceful. So, we have to stop both of these stuff.

Now, when you get upset in the kitchen, even after you heard this talk, there are six reasons why you get upset. There are six reasons. And that's the list here.

So, let's talk about it. Number one, why you get upset at your husband? Because you got upset at your kids.

When you got upset at your kids, you planted two kinds of seeds. What's that? Number one, you plant yelling seeds.

Number two, by being upset at your husband, or your kids, you plant bad habit. So, two things. You plant husband blah blah blah blah blah.

And you plant bad habit. You will get upset more and more and more and more. So, when you yell at your kids, you are making two kinds of bad seeds.

Number one, your husband will yell at you. Number two, you will get upset in the kitchen, you will get upset in the kids room, you will get upset at work. First cause of klesha, first cause of anger, is the old anger.

Okay? You got angry many many times. You are like the person drink too much alcohol.

You are addicted to anger. The old anger made new anger seed. You are alcohol addiction, you are also anger addiction.

You got used to it. That's number one. Okay?

So, how to stop your anger? Stop your anger. Okay?

I'll ask again. How to stop your anger? Stop your anger.

Geshe-la, this is stupid. How to stop your anger? Stop your anger.

Okay, but it's true. If you try to control yourself with your kids, you plant a seed for control yourself. Then when you come to the kitchen, that good seed will open.

Understand? So, when you going to yell at your kids, I have a very good advice. Wait for ten seconds.

Count to ten. I'll show you. Kids, it's time for school.

I want to say, you are so stupid. One, two, three, four, five, six, seven, eight, nine. You most stupid kids in Guangzhou.

Just wait for ten seconds. Then do every bad thing, it's fine. Okay?

Just hold for ten seconds. Okay? Anytime you want to yell at your husband, ready?

Just wait ten seconds. During those ten seconds, very powerful good karma much more powerful than the bad seed. Okay?

So, I didn't say, don't yell at your husband. I didn't say that. Because you cannot do it.

Okay? You cannot do it. I just said, what did I say?

Wait ten seconds. Then yell at him super bad. The karma, the karma of those ten seconds extremely powerful.

[Speaker 2]
Okay?

[Speaker 1]
Much more powerful. Did Geshe-la tell you, don't say bad words. No.

I said, that's fine. Go ahead. Say very bad words.

Very good. Okay, but wait ten seconds. Okay?

And that good seed is much more powerful. Okay? If you get, you will get the habit.

Okay? You will get the habit to stop. Okay?

So, my second, the second thing here. So, the first one. Just wait.

Ten seconds. Control yourself. You have alcohol problem.

I don't have alcohol problem. Norica knows. Joyce knows.

I have yo-tiao problem. I don't have alcohol problem. But I love, oh, don't tell everybody.

Give me secretly. Okay. So, but if Geshe-la, not supposed, I will get extra watermelon here.

So, if they give me yo-tiao, Geshe-la like this. Ten seconds. That's all.

One. Two. Three.

Four, five, six, seven, eight, nine, ten. Then eat. Okay?

Any bad habit. Just wait ten seconds. Or the second thing on the list.

The second suggestion on the list. It's called proximity. Don't allow yo-tiao to come in your room.

Okay? Tell Joyce.

[Speaker 2]
Tell Norica.

[Speaker 1]
Don't allow yo-tiao in Geshe-la's room. Okay?

[Speaker 2]
Why?

[Speaker 1]
Actually, Geshe-la cannot control himself. If you put the yo-tiao in Geshe-la's room, he will eat it. He doesn't have self-control.

This is the second advice in the jin for anger. Okay? Then, just avoid it.

Okay, watch. Honey! I'm home!

Oh, I forgot something. I forgot something in the car. Okay?

Okay, I forgot something in the car. Okay? The second way to stop bad emotion.

Just avoid your husband. Honey, I'm home! I'll be right back.

Then, just go outside. Wait for ten minutes. Come back.

Honey, I'm home! Wait, I forgot. Then, go for half hour.

Half hour. Then, come back. Honey, I'm home!

Then, go stay at your mother's house. For two days. Okay?

Avoid. Okay? Avoid.

That's the second way to stop a negative emotion. It is not real Buddhism. Okay?

It is not real Buddhism. Real Buddhism. Use空性 Use空性.

Okay? But But if you're not strong okay, avoid. Avoid those people who give you trouble.

Avoid them.

[Speaker 2]
Okay?

[Speaker 1]
Don't go to the room. Okay? If the husband is yelling, go to the coffee shop.

Okay? Is it Buddhism? No, it's not.

It doesn't change the problem. But it makes you stronger. Okay?

It calms you down. So, it's okay. It's okay.

If someone's giving you trouble, small, small antidote. Avoid them. Okay?

More peaceful. But it doesn't fix the problem. Okay?

Buddhism purpose fix the problem forever. Geshe-la does that mean if my husband get angry I shouldn't go to another room? I didn't say that.

That's okay. But it won't fix the problem. It will make more peaceful.

It's a good thing to do. But it doesn't fix the problem forever. Purpose of Buddhism fix the problem forever.

Kuma? Okay. So, that's enough for tonight.

Don't forget the special blessing of Jinkanjin. You will have a fight with your husband tonight. Okay?

That's okay. That's okay. Okay, don't be surprised.

Okay? Don't be surprised. We are outside my house.

There's an ant nest. Then they usually they just doing their work. I don't bother them.

They don't bother me. These are big red ants. They have a good they can bite you.

We have agreement. They don't bother me. I don't step on them.

Okay? Now, sometimes I will accidentally I will stir them up. Then they will bite me.

Understand? What am I talking about? Your mind.

Your mind. That's okay. Right now, you live with your mind.

Your mind get angry sometimes. You're okay. That's fine.

Now, when you study Buddhism, when you study kongshin, you are stirring up the ant. Okay? Tonight, tomorrow, you will get more angry.

[Speaker 2]
Okay?

[Speaker 1]
That's a good sign. Okay? You have to stir up the mind.

So, you can kill the bad thought. Okay? So, don't be upset.

If you get more angry tonight, tomorrow, that's a good sign. Okay? Coming out.

The bad thing coming out. My teacher said, if you hear tonight about the two husband in the kitchen, and when you go to bed, you have dream. In the dream, you are throwing up.

Very good sign. It's a bad, bad anger coming out. Okay?

So, don't get upset if you get upset. Okay? Just relax.

When you start real kongshin, all the bad seeds will wake up and they will die. In the jingang jin, Buddha said that people who understand kongshin, for a few days, they will get more problems. Understanding makes the old, bad seeds come up.

Then finish. Okay? So, don't get discouraged.

You will get angry a few times this week. It's okay. But we are killing it.

We are cleaning. Okay? Okay.

See you tomorrow. See you tomorrow. Mandala, Mandala.

Excuse me. And it will be from Yolanda. You.

She is the operation director of the body retreat. She worked very, very hard. Thank you very much.

Thank you. Okay, here we go.

[Speaker 2]
Thank you very much.

[Speaker 1]
Good night. Good night.