500 образов для медитации на шагах пути к просветлению, занятие 32

[Speaker 1]
Second type of meditation, problem-solving meditation, called in Tibetan, che gong, okay? Che means solve a problem, okay? For example, the two, the meditation, the side meditation we did today about finances and husband or wife, these are problem-solving meditations, okay?

How am I going to get my husband to be, to pay more attention to my needs? How am I going to increase my income because I just don't have enough. I need 10% more every month, I'll be okay, okay?

So, then you go into che gong, okay? The meditation object is a problem or a goal, okay? How am I going to reach that?

What do I have to do? What steps am I going to do? My suggestion is emptiness and then dependent origination, okay?

Emptiness, there's no husband who's going to change by normal methods. Go to a marriage counselor, talk to them, feed them nice dinners, take them to football games. It doesn't last, okay?

The husband who will respond to those things doesn't exist, okay? The husband who changes because you helped another person with their husband problem is a husband who's going to stay fixed, okay? So those are, we did problem-solving meditations today.